Yes, you are the only one you can change. You can do this in a loving way or making lots of trial and error actions. There are easy ways; there are difficult choices. Either way, you are the only one who can really change YOU for you (and for no other).
Yes, anger can be good sometimes. Use it as fuel to change yourself (not any other).
Getting mad at the “I’m not good enough” or other negative self talk that has never served you, can propel you to leave it, to walk away from that thing you believe about yourself that has never served you well.
Irritation is a form of anger. Perhaps it’s a lighter form, but it is still anger. Instead of hurling it at yourself or another, use it as a catalyst to change whatever it is that you’re unhappy with.
As the famous song says, you may not get what you want, but if you try, you can get what you need. Focus only on the necessities, until you have those working in your life. You don’t need to buy furniture polish until you have furniture. You don’t need to buy furniture until you have a place to put it. Get your priorities in order first. Needs, then the “nice to have” things. And remember, stuff doesn’t really make anyone happy. Happiness is an inside job. It really is.
To feel more calm and ease in your life, begin every night to think of at least a few things you are thankful for. And each morning, say “Thank You” to the Universe, to God, to yourself, just for your breath. For whatever shelter you have. For being a person with unlimited possibilities. The world really is your oyster.
When one lives in gratitude, real thankfulness, one can be, do, and have contentment. And many wonderful paths will open to you. Trust in that.
You can do this. You can breathe more peace and calm into the space in and around you.
Blessings to you in ALL ways.
On the uplifting side
Check out this original song, At a Lost for Words. Written by my husband and performed and recorded in a Nashville, TN studio. You can download it (it’s Track 2) from this link: https://store.cdbaby.com/cd/chevyfordb26
A bit about me:
An Amazon bestselling author of two co-authored books: “Transform Your Life Book 2 Inspirational Stories and Expert Advice” and “Energy of Receiving”, available on Amazon.
Plus, the brand new book that’s been in the making for 13 years, Take It Upon Yourself to Live a Wholly Vibrant Life, is now available for online sale and distribution (PDF format).
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