I don’t know why we make such a big deal about hair. So, it frames our face. So what? And why all the countless hours, and money, spent on curling, smoothing, straightening, coloring, styling, cutting, combing, brushing, cussing, fussing, ranting, raving, and crying about it? Ugh! And then, ugh again.
I wonder how many of us would love to shave our head and start fresh and new again as when we were babies?
Well, when my son’s girlfriend recently suggested I explore the freedom of a shaved head, I asked myself that question and more! I considered my dear friends going through cancer treatments who had lost their hair. I remembered my desire to shave my head in support—but that I had chickened out. After all, I had been growing my hair long for about the last 5 years and it was below my bra strap in the back. Could I part with it?
The last time my hair had been really short was July 2015, after I had asked my amazing stylist friend, Yu-Lee, to cut off all the blonde from when a previous stylist had left the bleach on my hair for too long and fried it.
But, let me back up a bit.
Before a one time stylist in Clermont, Florida fried my hair white, I had grown my hair quite long in the late 2000s to donate 11 inches of hair to Locks of Love. And I loved the cute style my long-time stylist, Lisa, had given me.
I wore my hair short for awhile and really enjoyed the ease of it. It was so manageable and I didn’t have to struggle with tangles. Easy breezy!
At one point, I asked Yu-Lee if she did hair extensions. She explained how extensions worked, but said, “The best way to get long hair, is to stop having it cut.” And that is exactly what I did. Not because I didn’t love seeing her once or twice a year, but because we moved and I couldn’t find an expert curly hair stylist! As well, I was “busy-busy,” seemingly all the time.
During the time that I worked in an office environment, I would see Yu-Lee for my hairstyle reshaping. Plus, we had become friends BEFORE she started her hair business in St. Pete and I genuinely enjoyed our meaningful conversations and time together.
Then, my world changed. My mom passed away.
If you are experiencing hair loss: You could take 1500mg Saw Palmetto and 500 mg Ashwaganda and drink Green tea every morning (as water revitalizes hair), or try the Jayld hair treatment. But, if you can become unattached to your hair, it is a much more freeing life. ❤️😉
By the time we went on our Sacred Celtic Journey (which I had paid for and was planning on going on for nearly a year), my dad had passed away.
Looking at my face here, I see my grief. I felt such a powerful presence at Stonehenge though. I was overwhelmed with emotion and raw, deep, feelings. I could have cared less about my hair, that’s for damn sure.
And now? As of April 18, 2020…
The new life begins:
It’s just hair. It will grow back.
Peace. Out. ❤️😘
P.S. – After a sister bestie wrote me a message about loving this article, I replied to her: I hope to inspire and empower women—though I am not exactly sure why. I guess because my mom always wanted to be more for my dad, and didn’t see her own beauty. I had a low self esteem/image most of my life. And we all know the problems that can cause. 😘
Author of "Have Yourself a Wholly Vibrant Life: Reversing Asthma and Other Chronic Illness Naturally” (2nd edition), as well as, “Blue Eyes: Ethereal Messages of Connection,” and two blogs. Sheila Murrey writes primarily on spiritual and holistic health topics. As well she writes about integrating and balancing her emotions, raising her vibration, and expanding our consciousness to uplift and lighten ourselves. ALL can live a healthy, happy, soul-aligned, and wholly vibrant life!
Sheila lives and breathes Holism (think wholesome and holistic health) and Omnism (giving thanks to Omniscience God in ALL ways). Teaching Breathwork (having naturally healed her body of asthma in 2005 and various other ailments with Pranayama). She’s into Meditation, Personal Awakening & Transformation (Awake not “Woke”). Social Change will come about the more we embrace the mantra, We Are All Connected, and work actively to listen, Connect, and engage empathically with others one-by-one.
Sheila is a vibrant spiritual being living a Soul-connected earthly experience in a human body to connect Heaven to Earth.
Mantras (and quotes attributed to Sheila):
Each of us learn at differing rates of speed.
There’s no Perfection in Art; Life’s an Art.
Align with Spirit in ALL ways.
Go with your "God bumps" flow to FEEL your Soul-alignment ALL the time.
We Are All Connected.
Everything Resolves to Gratitude.
Since Life's an Art, she releases the need to reach Perfection.
Study at your Passion.
Gather knowledge and share it.
Pray.
Meditate.
When upset, breathe from heart-center and be as water; find your level.
Always balancing. Always integrating.
Then, Take It Upon Yourself to walk your talk, practice what you preach, and integrate all you learn into your day-to-day, so you joyfully express Omni-everything!
Life's an ADVENTURE! Now, go have FUN!
Disclaimer: Sheila Murrey is retired from a 35+ career in Information Technology.
NOT a doctor or health practitioner, though she confers with natural and holistic health professionals as a writer and has been an emcee at health festivals and events.
Sheila encourages ALL to FIRST seek natural and holistic health remedies when noticing any irregularity in mind or body. Multiple opinions offer the most hope and support when challenged with any health issue.
Seek out holistic, alternative, licensed, professional health and wellness providers.
Sheila is a meditator, eats (and fasts) on a mostly plant-based diet, more tree hugger than consumer, advocate of simple and minimalist living, and grandmother of three fantastic granddaughters. Prior to 8/2021 lived in an RV full-time for 11 years, the last 17 months of which, were Off Grid.
Many blessings in ALL ways. To our better health! Amen. Namaste. OM
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I just love your whole soul. You reach out and touch all of our hearts with your mostly uplifting, sometimes sad, always honest lessons you’ve learned and are willing to share. Thank you, dear Sheila, for always walking the talk ♥️🌳🌄🌎☮️
Aww, thank you, dearest Ann! I strive to walk my talk—probably the best compliment one could ever receive!
I believe we learn from those who challenge us, as much or more than from those who praise us, as in truth, we are all mirroring each of our souls.
Speaking of the “sometimes sad,” I had sent a new friend a personalized custom affirmation video the other day, and she wrote me back that it made her cry! Of course that had not been my intention nor the subject of the video, so I was taken aback! I dove deep into meditation to try and unravel that and was once again brought back to the mirror ball analogy. And that there’s no way we can see or know the whole picture—not on this side of The Veil. Not yet. ❤️🦋🌀😘
It’s just hair indeed! Back in my youth, I used to apply henna to my hair at least 3 times a week. The mess it produced! I should say I really had a lot of free time then, and man, was I determined!
Sorry about your parents. And thanks for including captions on those pictures – as a blind person, I probably wouldn’t have been able to tell there were images there without them.
People have no idea that fast growth shampoos (of course with no sulfates, no parabens or DEA) are a thing. Individuals are now able to possess longer hair and enjoy more possibilities. Surely worth checking out.
When you’re dealing with hair loss, hair damage, avoiding skin disorders, fast hair growth, hair health more often than not, the same principles come to mind.
For the most part, you want to stay away from hair treatments and products that include chemicals such as parabens, DEA and sulfates.
What’s healthy for your hair is healthy for your skin all the same.
Clearly the content on this page is so accurate for many reasons. It steers away from the common mistakes and errors too many fall into- using defective alternatives. Thank you so much!
I love the new doo. What freedom! ❤
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Thank you sooo much! Yes, yes… freedom! That is the best way to describe it. ❤️🦋🌀😘
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I just love your whole soul. You reach out and touch all of our hearts with your mostly uplifting, sometimes sad, always honest lessons you’ve learned and are willing to share. Thank you, dear Sheila, for always walking the talk ♥️🌳🌄🌎☮️
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Aww, thank you, dearest Ann! I strive to walk my talk—probably the best compliment one could ever receive!
I believe we learn from those who challenge us, as much or more than from those who praise us, as in truth, we are all mirroring each of our souls.
Speaking of the “sometimes sad,” I had sent a new friend a personalized custom affirmation video the other day, and she wrote me back that it made her cry! Of course that had not been my intention nor the subject of the video, so I was taken aback! I dove deep into meditation to try and unravel that and was once again brought back to the mirror ball analogy. And that there’s no way we can see or know the whole picture—not on this side of The Veil. Not yet. ❤️🦋🌀😘
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I enjoyed reading about your journey, Sheila! You have a very expressive heart. There is riches in that ❤
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Thank you for reading and for your comment, Jennifer. My first granddaughters name is Jennifer too! ❤️😉
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Aw I love that. And you’re welcome, my sis! ❤
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It’s just hair indeed! Back in my youth, I used to apply henna to my hair at least 3 times a week. The mess it produced! I should say I really had a lot of free time then, and man, was I determined!
Sorry about your parents. And thanks for including captions on those pictures – as a blind person, I probably wouldn’t have been able to tell there were images there without them.
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Thank you sooo much for your beautiful comment. I say beautiful, because you have inspired me to always capture my images. ❤️
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Thank you!
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People have no idea that fast growth shampoos (of course with no sulfates, no parabens or DEA) are a thing. Individuals are now able to possess longer hair and enjoy more possibilities. Surely worth checking out.
When you’re dealing with hair loss, hair damage, avoiding skin disorders, fast hair growth, hair health more often than not, the same principles come to mind.
For the most part, you want to stay away from hair treatments and products that include chemicals such as parabens, DEA and sulfates.
What’s healthy for your hair is healthy for your skin all the same.
Clearly the content on this page is so accurate for many reasons. It steers away from the common mistakes and errors too many fall into- using defective alternatives. Thank you so much!
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Thank you, Annie! Do you have a few suggestions on natural fast growth shampoos?
FYI: my hair has grown back thicker from using my small Ashley Black fascial tool on my scalp while showering! I love it! ❤️🦋🌀〰️
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